To keep your relationship alive there are certain things
that must be done. For any relationship to be active and going smoothly, these
tips must be strictly adhered to. The tips are as follows;-
1.
There is a need for you to create time to pray
together about your future and any satanic traps.
2.
The
persons in courtship need to jointly attend intending couple’s class or
marriage and family school. Family transformation training.
3.
It is ideal for intending couples should be in
constant touch with each other via phone call, text, e-mail; write each other
regularly, especially when you live in different towns or cities.
4.
Discuss as adult, minimize disagreement and if
there is any, see a counselor.
5.
Trust each other and of course be trustworthy
6.
Exchange gifts and visit each where Satan won’t
take advantage of you.
7.
Share spiritual assignment e.g. reading through
the bible in three months or less, share prayer agreement and requests at
night, appointing a day or more per week for fasting, attend conference together,
exchange books on relationship and other areas of concern together e.t.c.
Courtship can be broken owing to a number of factors.
However, it must not be broken any how because the emotion and life of human
being are involved. The factors responsible for broken courtship include but
not limited to;-
1.
Wedding
2.
Medical conflict e.g. if both intending couple
are ‘AS’ , ‘SS’ genotype they can amicably part ways
3.
Church directive: when gross indiscipline,
illegal business, unfaithfulness, backsliding are discovered.
4.
God’s directive/ godly counsel of godly people
who knows the mind of God on that relationship than the parochial, sentimental
and emotional, un-reasonability of the intending couple.
5.
Irreconcilable differences and orientations.
6.
Death of an intended partner
7.
Insanity
8.
Immorality/ double dating
9.
Constant misunderstanding and disagreement.
10.
Lack of inner peace about the relationship.
11.
Mutual agreement to amicably part ways for
extraneous reasons.
