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let’s get a few sex tips

So, let’s get a few sex tips straight from the horse’s mouth, shall we? Here’s what men want you to know about what they like in bed:
1. Take control.
As much as our hombres love to be “macho macho” men, they also love being dominated. Maybe it’s a mommy thing; Latina moms are no joke!
Regardless of the reason, climb on top of him, grab him by the wrists and make him your bitch. You can even use whips, chains or a blindfold. Ask your man what he prefers, and ask him how rough he wants it.
Make sure to choose a safety word!

2. Blow him.
Who knew?! Kidding.
Men love blowjobs. It’s quick (if you’re doing it right and know his sweet spot), and you can blow him pretty much anywhere. One man even told me he loves “spontaneous BJs.” So get on your knees and blow, chicas.

3. Talk dirty.
Men love it when you utter filthy words in their ear. “I want a woman to tell me what she wants in a really nasty way,” said one chico from Boston.
How nasty? It depends on the guy. Some men love it when women curse. Others want a woman to talk about how much you love their junk. Describe it in graphic detail, explaining how good it feels in your…. you get the jist.

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4. Show him what you want.
“I love it when a woman takes my hand and puts inside her,” one hombre admitted. It’s not because he doesn’t know how to find your spot; he just thinks it’s sexy when a woman can lead the way.

Again, men love it when women are aggressive and confident in bed. Show him what you want with your fingertips!

5. self service in front of him.
Whether you are using a vibrator on your clitoris or using just your hands, self servicing is such a turn on for men. You can touch yourself pre-s*x, or you can just self service in front of him while he jerks himself off.
“It’s a fantasy,” one guy admitted, “maybe because of P0*n, but it’s hot to watch a girl give herself an climax.” Yes, chicas, men love voyeurism. Put your hands in your panties, and put on a one-woman show!

6. Talk to him in Spanish.
It isn’t a cliche; men love it when you speak to them in Spanish during s*x. Call him “papi” or tell him to give it to you duro while he’s sexing you doggy style in front of a mirror. No matter what words you choose, he will be in heaven! There’s nothing like the mother tongue to turn a man on.

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7. Praise him.
All men want to feel like they are the best you’ve ever had. So praise him like the Greek god he wants to be.
During the act, tell him how good it feels when he licks you there. Tell him that he’s driving you loca because his Johnson is in control. That will not only boost his confidence, but it will also motivate him to open up about what he wants sexually.

He will tell you what he truly desires, and that’s what you want — because he’s the horse that really matters. Gud luck ladies enjoy ur day.

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How To Tighten the Vagina and Keep Away Any Bad Smells

Have you ever wondered once or twice or more, how tight your vagina was, or whether your vagina has a bad smell? If you're married or sexually active, you probably want to know how to take better care of your vagina. It will definitely be on your mind when you want to do the do or it's time for your partner to go 'down'. I also talked about Vaginal Yeast Infection and Best Herbal Cure For Candida To Reduce Vaginal Itching. Read post to stop itching from my timeline.

For getting your vagina tight, I know Kegels are great and I practice them when I remember. By the way, am I the only one who gets aroused doing Kegel exercises?

About how to keep away the bad vagina smells, bear in mind that all vaginas have their own natural smell, maybe I should say scent. That unique scent can be an aphrodisiac for your partner, but when your vagina starts smelling too fishy, there's something fishy.

You need to get rid of that smell from the inside out, and from the outside in. Below are the top 10 tips I found.

1. Eat a good quantity of citrus fruits like Oranges and Lemons

2. I don't know what Indian Gooseberry is but it's supposed to help for OK vaginal odor

3. Add fresh yoghurt to your diet

4. Garlic is your friend, as it helps keep away bacterial infections

5. Tea Tree Oil is mentioned too, I've never used it. I know it's great for hair too.

6. Drink lots of water, of course.

7. Use water every time you use a toilet, a wipe may be better than tissue paper. Avoid using douches. Soap is alkaline and messes with the pH levels in your vagina. Sometimes I use soap on my labia but I never, ever use soap to wash my inner labia or vagina. The inside of your vagina is designed to clean itself, that's what (normal, healthy) discharge is all about. So water and your own hand is the way to go, in my opinion.

8. Keep the vaginal area clean and dry also keep your pubic hair short.

9. Choose cotton underwears or those with cotton in the vagina area. Or go commando, that is, without undies at all.

10. During your period, change your sanitary pads or tampons frequently and use panty liners during your ovulation. (Contact us for treated Sanitary pads & Panty liners)

I would love to hear your own ideas of getting rid of vaginal odor. Please leave a comment below.

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How To Love A Man – 10 Easy Steps For Women

A month ago I wrote a popular post about “How To Love A Woman – 10 Ways A Man Can Love” with my recommendations to men on how to love their woman.

In it I said, “How often do you hear men say, “My wife doesn’t understand me.” What they really mean is, “I don’t understand my wife.”

There was lively discussion on that point, in particular, and a female commenter turned the tables saying,

“I’m sure plenty of women don’t understand men, and they could do well to try and listen more rather than think it’s all about them. Big assumption goes on in many places that men don’t have to be understood, they just want one thing etc.”.

While agreeing with her I felt that this is for a woman to talk about, not for man. I see my aim here is to help men understand themselves and women.

She went on to say,

“Who is better qualified to talk about what a man needs than a man? How can women learn if men don’t speak up? I don’t see much about that. Not that any one man can speak for all men, but I would love to see more men speak up. Maybe in the future we’ll see a post from you about what women need to know about men, about how to love a man?”

Being a man I couldn’t fail to rise to the challenge, so here’s the lowdown for women on how to love a man:

How To Love A Man

1. Start by Loving Yourself

As I said to the men, this is not being selfish. If you are unable to love yourself you are unable to love someone else.

Women often have trouble with this because they spend too much time loving others. They can airbrush themselves out of the picture and use up all their love on their man, their children and others.

Loving yourself is the basis of life and the basis of a balanced personality. How can you take another’s love for you seriously if you don’t belief you are worth loving?

2. Just Love Him For Himself

Men have many qualities we love, perhaps they’re strong, or sexy, or inspirational, or funny, or even rich. Understand that this is not why you love him, you love him just because of him, nothing else.

Your love is not conditional, it is not based on any special qualities. You love him.

Men, however, often think that it’s their special blend of qualities that attracts you. Encourage your man to understand that it’s not those qualities but their being themselves that you love. This is so crucial in knowing how to love a man.

3. Live In Your Femininity

Whilst you may want to impress the man you love you must not stop being the woman you are. Your love should come from inside yourself, from your very soul. The love must be part of your femininity — however you express it — and be part of how you live.

Remain just who you are, be the woman he met and fell in love with, that’s how to love a man.

He finds excitement in your femininity, particularly when it laced with love. Don’t ever let him down.

4. Don’t Be His Mother

Men often retain a bond with their mother and like to be looked after by them. Don’t drift into being his mother or try to supercede her. He needs you as a lover.

Women can end up just taking care of their man and men accept this. This is potentially disastrous. He doesn’t really want this from you.

This is especially true after you have children. Take care you still treat him as your lover, this will be what he is missing.

5. Get To Know Him

How often do you feel a man drift away from you saying, “my wife doesn’t understand me”. Don’t let him go there, understand him.

Love can only grow and deepen through understanding. You can never get to the point where you think you know everything about him.

You may think a man is simple, in fact he is a complex person that even he doesn’t understand.

You need to love him and get to know him with patience and determination, this is a key to how to love a man.

6. Count Your Blessings

That means the blessings you have together, the things you have achieved together, all that you are as a couple.

This should be a regular part of your life together. It’s ok to recount the great things in the past but this should be tempered with looking at the amazing things you are going to do in the future.

As a rule of thumb it is advisable to expect a future way beyond one that you can imagine. Expectations can lead to frustration if they limit you, expecting them to go way beyond is a good step into the future.

7. Give Him Space

Whilst a woman often needs attention, a man needs space and time. Men thrive on being focused and directed and sometimes need to clear their minds to focus on what is important to them at that moment. Accept it may not be you.

It can be important to give him time to respond to a situation. Women often respond immediately, instinctively, but a man can take more time, to reflect and formulate a response. Understand this and give him the time, don’t jump in.

There are times, also, when men need space just to be… well, nothing. Men thrive on periods of emptiness, allow them that. Get this right and you will really know how to love a man.

8. Receive As Well As Give

Love is about giving more than receiving but if you give too much you close off the channel for love.

It is crucial that you are able to receive the love that is offerred to you by him otherwise it quickly dies. It may not come in the form you expect, look out for it, however subtle, and accept it in the spirit it was given.

Don’t shower him with more love than he can receive.

Give him time to respond.

9. Make Him Feel Amazing

Men need to feel good about themselves and often don’t. They may live in their power but not be convinced by it.

Make him feel he deserves it, make him realise he is the man he would like to be.

It’s important to do this from a genuine appreciation of him and his qualities.

He should believe what you say otherwise everything disappears.

Inspire him to be more of himself. You have to understand this to know how to love a man.

10. Start Afresh Each Day

I talked about this in, “How do You Keep it Fresh? – 10 Steps to Heaven“. I said,

“Start again as if it was the first day of the relationship. Welcome her into your world and look forward to your day together. Give her your love and tell her you love her. Do it again in a different way and repeat. I’m sure I don’t have to tell you where to go from here.”

This applies equally to you and your man. The refreshing of your love will keep it alive and bring you closer to each other. Through this your love will deepen and become an essential part of everyday you spend together.

As a woman you will succeed if make your man feel amazing. Inspire him to feel more of himself, then he will feel like a man.

Source: http://grahamreidphoenix.com/2011/02/10-ways-to-love/